but the tragedy of jess and rory in s3 and how they both have such abandonment issues because of their respective absent parents yet that’s exactly what they end up doing to each other and it bookends the season: rory off at washington without a word to jess despite the things she does want to write to him and tries to but can’t and jess going off to california without a word and calling but not being able to say anything when she picks up

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